On February 15 I posted on Just
Backdated this photograph of myself with Elton John and my old friend Ashley
Pandel. I didn’t know it at the time and, indeed, didn’t know it until yesterday
that Ashley passed away on December 10 last. It is no exaggeration to say that
during the period I lived in New York, from the end of 1973 to the end of 1978,
give or take a few months back in the UK along the way, Ashley was my best
American friend. Here’s my tribute to him.
When I was in
the thick of it in the seventies the music industry attracted the good, the bad
and the ugly, as well as the handsome and the beautiful, the spivs and the duckers
and divers and the special people, the free thinkers and the free loaders, the
skilled and the incompetent, and the brilliant people who shone like the sun
and had nowhere else to go. Then there were the nerds like me who simply adored
the music and wouldn’t want to be anywhere else, and there were those with
charm in abundance who could use it to further careers and advance themselves
at the same time. And then there were the girls and boys who simply wanted to see
the bright lights, to have a great time, to stay up late and taste everything
that the unholy world could offer, legal and otherwise, who were high on life
and anything else they could find, the seekers of pleasure, of sex and drugs
and rock & roll, and all these people had a twinkle in their eye and a warm
glow in their hearts, and my great friend Ashley Pandel had all of this and much
more besides.
It is appropriate then that we should first meet at
the Speakeasy Club in London when Alice Cooper was visiting the UK in 1972. Ashley
was wearing a red velvet jacket with a yellow cord trim and his hair was way long,
down past his shoulders, and in the dark of the club he looked just fine and
dandy to me, so we got talking. He was, he said, working for Alice Cooper, for
Alive Enterprises, the company headed by Shep Gordon that managed the Coop, and
he was already a friend of Roy Hollingworth, my Melody Maker colleague who was our first New York correspondent, a
role I would assume myself in 1973, and it was this happenstance
that sucked Ashley and I into the same wondrous whirlpool of wine, women and
song.
When I arrived in New York in December of that year after a
few months in LA, Ashley was the first person I called. He’d left Alice’s
employ by this time and established a PR company called The Image Group with
Alice, Lou Reed, Todd Rundgren, the New York Dolls and a few more I can’t
remember as clients. IG had offices in Midtown on the East side and employed,
amongst others, Roy H as copywriter, his girlfriend Iris Brown, and our friend Mandi
Newall, formerly Derek Taylor’s PA at Warner Bros, and I soon found myself
hanging around their offices, and sloping off to a nearby bar with the staff
when the day ended. Ashley fixed up for me to do a story on Alice (see
elsewhere on JB) and interview Lou, and he was angling to get John Lennon on
his books too but I don’t think that ever happened, Harry Nilsson too.
Ashley lived with his spectacularly beautiful
girlfriend Nancy Bianchi in a fancy apartment in a block on East 59th
Street, just east of First Avenue, close to the East River and the big singles
bars like Maxwell’s Plum and TGI Fridays, but we liked to go drinking at a bar
called Waltzing Matilda’s further up Second Avenue, which had a
dartboard and a friendly manager. Ash, Nancy, Roy and Iris and her friend
Kathy, Mandi and stray rock writers like me and our girlfriends would drink the
night away there, often after dinner at an Italian restaurant called Oggi that
was across the Avenue. Ash and I loved clams casino, and a chicken dish cooked
with ham and cheese, washed down with white wine.
Ash christened me Chuck and told me about his past,
how he’d studied catering at college and once managed a hotel in a resort town
on the shores of Lake Michigan. He’d come up with the idea of only ever
accepting bookings from single women, so the place soon got a reputation
amongst blokes as a great place for finding them. “Bar was packed every night,”
he laughed. “Guys came from miles around knowing they’d find it full of girls.
Takings tripled.”
It was this background that inspired Ash to quit
the PR business and open his own bar and restaurant on Fifth Avenue at 13th
Street, with two partners, his brother Carl and a catering professional called Ed Martin.
I remember the opening night like it was yesterday. Ashleys was packed to the
gills with music business types and I wrote about it in my New York news
column. The next morning I woke up in a studio apartment on the Upper West Side
that belonged to one of the waitresses, name of Gail, who had six kittens and a
wardrobe full of antique floral print dresses, and she became my girlfriend for
a while.
So Ashleys became my home from home, a place like
the bar in Cheers where everybody knows your name and they’re always glad you
came. Mine host – Ashley was the front man, and brilliant at it too, a natural
mixer – went from table to table, greeting and telling jokes, laughing and
smiling, topping up drinks, putting quarters in the juke box, making absolutely
sure everyone was having a great time, night after night, week after week for
three years. He was always smartly dressed too, usually in three piece suits
and a silk tie, and he had a way of ensuring that the rock stars who visited
were never bothered by fans. Upstairs there was a dance floor and a DJ and it
was supposed to be members only but I don’t think this was strictly adhered to,
and there was an office where favoured guests could talk in private, hoover up
coke on the mirrors provided and, with the door firmly locked, do what comes
naturally to the birds and the bees.
Ashleys was party central, and a list of those who
visited reads like the inductees at the Rock’n’Roll Hall of Fame. Elsewhere on
JB you’ll find an account of a night there with John Lennon that ended up at a
waitress’ apartment downtown. They flocked to Ashleys like they flocked to Jay
Gatsby’s house, and there was something about Ash that reminded me of Fitzgerald's greatest character as he welcomed Beatles, Stones, Whos, Led Zeps, Pink Floyds, Faces,
Elton, Aerosmiths, Dolls, you name them, into his tavern. One of the guys from Kiss often came
in, without his make-up of course, and always ducked under a table if a
photographer was snapping away. Lou Reed was a regular, along with Johnny
Podell, the booking agent whose father Jules had famously run the Copacabana
for mobster Frank Costello, and Johnny’s petite girl Monica; the lovely models Lisa
Stolley and Babette, wife of Neal Smith, Alice’s drummer; Bleecker Bob who ran
the best record shop in the village; a friend of Ash’s called Martin who spoke nine languages
and worked at an embassy; a girl called Joy who beat me at chess, again and again, even after we'd reversed the board so she could take my losing position; and a golf
pro called Sam Anziano who ran an indoor golf course and took Ash and I golfing
to a club with five courses on Long Island. All these and many more came to
Ashleys, to drink and have fun, and at the centre of it all, grinning from ear
to ear, shining like a diamond, radiating a special kind of magic, was Ashley Pandel, one of the best friends I ever had.
I became a charter member of Ashleys and as a
reward for my custom Ashley made me member ♯001. I
signed my bar checks and always paid up when the bills arrived, and Ashley told
me no one paid up more promptly than me. So I ate beef Wellington and, sometimes, drank Don
Perignon on the house. When in the summer of 1975 I was relieved of my post for
a few months I pined for Ashleys and when I returned to NY that September I
told the cabbie to take me straight there, straight from JFK to the Long Island Expressway and across the Queensboro Bridge, down Fifth to 13th. I can still remember the thrill of seeing the lights of Manhattan's skyline again that night as we approached the city, and when I walked into the bar and put down my suitcase
Ash ran over and hugged me like a long lost child.
Somewhere along the line Ashley acquired a dog, a beagle he named Barnaby, which one heartrending day got lost in the streets by the
club, so the staff put up ‘Lost Dog’ notices on all the neighbourhood signs,
and a few days later Barnaby turned up. I don’t think I’ve ever seen Ashley
looking happier than he did that day. Or maybe he was happiest the day he
married his first wife, Terri Donaldson, Nancy having departed to pastures new.
Terri was a fiery Irish girl from a rich Midwestern family, chic as hell, beautiful
too, with long black wavy hair, who worked in fashion but the marriage didn’t
last, a victim of a lifestyle that wasn't conducive to long term stable relationships.
In the meantime Ashley had opened Ashley’s West, a
hotel in Palm Springs. I visited once, on the back of a trip to LA with Bad
Company I think, renting a car and driving out into the desert until I came
upon this strange settlement where rich types hide away and get up to no good.
Ash and I played golf there on some snazzy course, and in the evening I thought
I was in with a chance with a South African guest but then we got to talking
about apartheid and her views turned my desire stone cold. “Shoulda stuck
to rock’n’roll Chuck,” laughed Ash.
Joints like Ashleys have a finite life and so it was that a combination of too much fun, tax
issues and a visit from the mob brought it to a close. It was like a comet, the brightest in the sky, and it burned itself out within three years. Carl opened
another bar called Hopper’s – after the painter – and Ashley mooched around
with a wad of money he’d made and not much to do. What to do next? By this time
I’d left MM, worked briefly at Penthouse for Bob Guccione Jnr, another
Ashleys regular, then worked for Peter Rudge at Sir Productions which went tits
up after the Lynyrd Skynyrd plane crash. So I was in the same boat.
So Ashley and I decided to manage a rock group,
name of Teezer, but it didn’t work out. I think we expected too much too soon, and
a fancy showcase we laid on at Studio Instrument Rentals for A&R men didn’t
go the way we had hoped. We both lost a bit of money on that and I could see my
time in NY was turning bad, so I came back to the UK and never saw Ash again,
ever.
Oh, we stayed in touch, the odd phone call, the odd
card, the odd e-mail. I followed his adventures as he fled to Florida and
managed the catering at a hotel in Ft Lauderdale and, I think, ran the catering
for some big sports team down there. I always thought I’d see him again one day for one last drink, one last toke, one last laugh, but it never happened and now it never will. Like me he eventually got married again and raised a
family, and a few years ago he sent me a book he’d written about his life.
Unfortunately it was unpublishable – chock full of libels that would have given
a lawyer a nervous breakdown. I had to explain this to him and he was disappointed, and that was
the last conversation we ever had. Then, yesterday, surfing the net I came
across his Facebook page and found out that he was no more. I ought to have
known earlier because I later discovered that someone had posted a comment to
that effect here on Just Backdated, on a post about Alice, but I’d missed
seeing it. Thanks whoever did that.
And thanks Ash for all the fun we had back when we
were naughty boys. Sorry this is a bite late. RIP my dear old friend.
(All photographs courtesy Bob Gruen.)